Understanding the Dangers of 'Future-Faking' in Relationships
January 13, 2025 - 06:08
A Los Angeles psychologist has shed light on the troubling phenomenon of 'future-faking,' particularly among older couples. This behavior involves making false promises about future plans or aspirations to manipulate a partner's emotions and keep them invested in the relationship. While it can occur at any age, the psychologist notes that older couples may be more susceptible due to their desire for companionship and stability in later life.
Future-faking can manifest in various ways, such as discussing grand plans for retirement, vacations, or family gatherings that are never realized. This deceit can lead to feelings of betrayal, anxiety, and low self-esteem for the partner who is being misled. The psychologist emphasizes the importance of open communication and honesty in relationships, especially as couples navigate the complexities of aging together.
Recognizing the signs of future-faking is crucial to maintaining a healthy partnership. Couples are encouraged to engage in honest discussions about their expectations and desires to foster genuine connections built on trust.
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